The act of slowly transitioning from relaxed to natural tresses, rather than Big Chopping (cutting off the relaxed ends in one fell swoop), can be frustrating at times but highly rewarding, especially if maintaining length is a priority.
Like any other challenge in life, you have to go into this process armed with knowledge and patience. Since your hair has two very different textures, breakage and shedding can become a problem. Here’s how to have a smooth, successful transition:
Excessive heat-styling is dangerous because it compromises protein bonds. Using heat as a crutch while transitioning can result in an uneven curl pattern, loss of curl and breakage. Sadly, this damage is likely irreversible, and you can end up facing yet another transition.
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Choose styles that seamlessly blend the two textures — and don’t stress your edges! Twist- and braid-outs, pin curls, roller sets, buns and braids should be your style staples. Handle your hair gently and infrequently, and remember to moisturize.
The line of demarcation is where your natural hair meets the relaxed hair. It is a point of weakness and the source of breakage for many transitioners. For this reason, use your fingers instead of combs and brushes when detangling and styling.
Your relaxed ends need protein to maintain strength and prevent breakage. I recommend monthly protein treatments and weekly moisturizing deep-treatments with heat. Your hair will thank you later!
You’re gonna need it. The two very different textures can be overwhelming, and they are often the reason why many women chop prematurely. Just keep in mind that a hasty Big Chop could lead to a return to the relaxer or months of confidence issues related to your hair.