I started yearning for a tattoo in high school, but my mother was firmly opposed. Then life started “life-ing” and I put my ink dreams to the side. Finally, when I was older, I took the plunge. 

My first piece was three skulls up the side of my leg in the “See No Evil, Hear No Evil, Speak No Evil” pose. And I was satisfied… for about a year.

Seriously, everyone and their sister said, “Just wait, you’ll want more.” They were right. I currently have six and am designing my seventh. 

If you’re ready to take the leap, here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Commit to the Concept: Make sure it’s something you truly want. Laser removal is expensive and painful. While “cover-up” tattoos are always an option, it’s better to love the first layer.
• Curate an Inspiration Board: Start a photo album of tattoos you admire. Eventually, a pattern will emerge, helping you identify the specific style that defines your perfect design.
• Check Your Spelling: If your design includes text, check it—then have a friend check it. There is no “backspace” once the ink is in, and a typo is a permanent (and expensive) mistake.
• Consider Placement: Think about the “canvas.” You might want to avoid areas prone to significant sagging later in life, or spots where you’ll have to constantly explain the ink to strangers.
• Find a Reputable Artist: Don’t just walk into a random parlor because you’re “ready.” A great artist usually has a waiting list; being able to walk in and get inked immediately can be a red flag.
• The Pain Factor: Yes, they hurt—but some spots are less intense than others. For example, the neck just under the skull has fewer nerve endings, so it feels more like an intense vibration than a needle.
• Time Commitment: Most first tattoos are small and don’t take long. My smallest piece—a skull with hearts for eyes behind my ear—took only 20 minutes.
• Tip Your Artist: If you love the work, show it! Tipping means the world to the person who just put permanent art on your body.
• Respect the Aftercare: Do exactly what your artist tells you. Don’t assume you know better and risk infection. Trust me—I’m speaking from experience here.

So, you’ve got your first tattoo. Now what? 

While your tattoo heals, you’ll start noticing ink on others more frequently. You’ll find yourself admiring new styles and wondering what’s next. Will you stick with “just one” like you promised? Or will you decide it’s your body and your story to tell?

Only you know for sure—but I think I know which way you’re leaning.